“Your cock worship has gone from like a 3 to a 10 this past year.”

OKAY. WINNING.

I always thought I was good. There was some skill. But I didn’t know the depth and capacity I could go.

It wasn’t until I was with a partner who gave me honest feedback that I worked on becoming even better.

I did have to get over my ego slut that didn’t want to receive the help. She wanted to believe she had it DOWN… haha but luckily through working with my inner triggers I let that one go… to all of our advantage!!

And I developed the real technique 😉

The thing is- the real technique actually isn’t a technique!

It’s an intuitive dance from within the person worshipping said cock that gets all the gold stars ⭐️ 😏

I want to give you some pointers to not only BE GOOD at pleasuring a cock, but also ENJOY it deeply and receive pleasure from it at the same time.

So many of you have written me lately saying you don’t like doing it!! 😱

Let’s change that up.

1️⃣ Start In Your Own Time + Stay Present. Place your lips around the cock when you’re fully present. If your mind is elsewhere when he asks you to start, collect yourself first… before just going through the motions on automatic. Look at him. Breathe in the space between now and then. Get closer. Start slow. (Btw if you ever catch yourself ONCE “just going through the motions”… stop and start again. It’s likely you’re not worshipping a cock but giving a fraction of what you could access, and that’s no fun for anyone involved.)

2️⃣ Do It To Receive. I know this is a counter-clockwise approach because cock sucking is absolutely for the other person. The problem is that when you set yourself up to only give, you lose touch with your intuition. If you ask – “What would feel good in my mouth?” you’ll be well on your way to a super sexy experience for you both. Plus, you give him more pleasure naturally when you’re enjoying yourself too. He likes your moans and groans and desires. And at the back of the throat is a “little pussy” – when you bring him deep down.. you can actually bring yourself a sensation as if he’s entering you down below. What does the goddess in you want? Where do you want to feel him? Lips? Throat? Tongue? Give him to yourself- it’s more than likely that he’ll squirm in ecstasy as you pleasure your mouth with him!

3️⃣ Change Up The Motion. Most women think that men just want fast up and down movements, but that’s usually not the case. Instead, explore different hand and tongue techniques. Fast and slow. Seductive, sweet, and sexy. Don’t forget the area right under the belly button and exploring below the cock. Even your position (kneeling, on top of him, below him) matters  

4️⃣ Don’t Assume. I know your ego slut wants to believe that she’s got it covered as did mine… but try to never assume if he’s enjoying it or not. Instead… ask! Give him a sexy glance straight into those eyes and try a… “Baby… how’s this feeling?” 

PS: Preferably, practice cock worship with a man your heart adores and whom you share love and connection with. It’s not a necessity, but the more love… the more you can give.

PPS: I wouldn’t be giving and receiving so much juicy pleasure through cock worship if I didn’t work on my triggers and insecurities that arose early on in our partnership. Thank goooodness. If you’re ready to let go of your blocks so you can also become an insane lover – in whatever area of your relationship – I invite you to join Trigger Play ✨✨✨

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