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I’M ASHAE.

A voice for feminine leadership, sexual liberation, and the art of love.
You can call me obsessed with erotic innocence, orgasmic abundance, and emblazened passion. (Oh yeah and crystal wands, make out sessions, Insta stories, and makin cash flow from feminine magnetism mm mm mm)
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EXPERIENCE YOUR BODY AS NATURALLY EROTIC

In this delicious (and free) meditation audio, you’ll surrender into the kind of ecstatic pleasure that’ll give you the confidence to be with your body again
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Let your longing love him deeper.
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Let your desire open you to Source.
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Let your craving transmute lack into what you know is underneath, waiting to be received.
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Let the part of you who misses his depth surrender your legs wider, so you can actually feel his power penetrating your soul- blasting through the illusion of separation you tend to see.
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Let the wholeness you crave keep you present so the moment the head of his cock is at the base of your cervix all you feel is home, God, love.
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Yearning is fucking brutal, but it’s such a gift.
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Because to yearn is to remember love.
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And when you remember love, you get to stand for nothing less.
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👉🏼 Most women on the planet do not know how to experience yearning and longing as love.
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If you’re reading this, there’s a gooooood chance you’re one of them.
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🥀You experience yearning as lack.
He’s not masculine enough.
There’s no good men in the world.
You need someone else.
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Whether you’re single or in relationship- if you haven’t moved through a healthy yearning portal- you will project your natural yearning self on to him.
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And that moves into fighting and anger and distorted feminism and the silent treatment and disrespect and lack of healing for him.
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But that’s the biggest illusion you lie to yourself about every day.
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And it hurts everyone. 😿
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💫You can yearn... and let it teach you how to honor him more. You can yearn... into pleasure. Into sacred devotion. Into knowingness.
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👉🏼 Because yearning is not pointing to the part of him that’s not there. It’s actually showing you the part of him that IS. So yearn, knowing he’s right around the corner.🌟
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*EMBODIED PRACTICE IS REQUIRED TO YEARN RESPONSIBLY*
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Taking you through this in the next course... 👁

📸 @permissionary

The feminine’s capacity for pleasure is endless.

My body finally understands that anger is an expre

Darling, anything you long to feel through your ma

You can’t run away from the knowing that if you’re having short-lived, non-climatic sex that leaves marks of boredom + longing in your bone... YOU are SETTLING for THAT.
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You are saying - “K fine, I’ll take this because at least it’s pleasure, I should be really grateful, at least it’s something, right?” 😓
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You might even be saying- “I’m still having an orgasm. And I don’t have that much time anyways.” 🧐
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Or perhaps- “Stop being selfish. Stop wanting too much. Your desires are too big.” 😱
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Let me tell you something.
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Good sex matters. Like, a lot.
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Good sex dismantles lifetimes of pain and trauma within love.
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It awakens the highest God and Goddess inside.
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It reminds you who you are.
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It breathes life into lost cracks and crevices glued up from protection and hiding.
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And it doesn’t happen until ONE (or both) partners makes a decision to unravel together for AN EXTENDED PERIOD OF TIME.
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To the feminine, stop blaming him for going too fast. It is YOUR JOB to guide the pace. It is your job to say no. It is your job to open the doors of intimacy and feeling. It is your job to greet even fastness with love and then guide it to be slow. Essentially, get intimate with your goddess pussy and let her do the talking. (We will be working on this in the next course I teach!!!!!!.... 💦)
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To the masculine, there is nowhere to arrive to. Be present with her, let her feel that you could nibble one fucking toe for an hour and she will unravel into you like you wouldn’t believe.
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And stay.
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There is magic, healing, and profound awakening to be found when you drop in to the intimate dripping juicy wetness of NOW, together 🔥

I’ll put the Goddess back into your Girl.

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