You’ve come a long way in your journey. You’ve done a lot of healing work. You’ve built a good life. You’ve figured out your purpose. And you no longer rely on men for your financial, emotional, physical, or spiritual needs.
But… deep down, you’re not satisfied.
You're starting to see that your independence isn't helping that insatiable longing that's deep within you.
Your heart yearns to be held- even enraptured- by a mans conscious claim over you.
If you let yourself really desire, you know that there is so much more
to feel
to witness
to be a part of
to welcome
to receive
There is a whole world of Eros, passion, pleasure, and connection to the ancient feminine inside of you, and it's beckoning to be met.
You want to feel alive with love coursing through your veins.
You want to focus on your career in devotion to the woman you get to be at home.
You want sensual exchanges that leave you pulsing with the heartbeat of the earth, drenched in love and awe for life.
Yet...
You still run into the same issues when it comes to intimacy and relationships:
Your standards are too high or too low- pushing him away regardless.
You lack the sensitivity to know when to soften or when to be fierce.
You believe in his potential but feel disappointed in his presence.
You crave to be seen in your radiance yet you always find yourself playing small.
It's the same patterns of closure every time.
You keep attracting the same kind of men over and over again, or you and your partner keep getting stuck in the same passionless ruts.
Maybe you want him to be more masculine, and he wants you to be more feminine.
Maybe you want to trust him more in life, but you keep falling into patterns of control.
Here's what you need to know, dear woman:
Dear Powerful, Independent Woman-
Your true power looks different in love.
You're either...
1. In a pretty good relationship.
There's love.
But you know somewhere inside that something is missing.
You want to feel the extraordinary passion between two people that you dream is possible.
But instead:
You feel the tepidness in your exchanges of intimacy.
You feel the lack of real depth in your day-to-day conversations.
You feel the hurt in your heart after years of subtle inauthenticity and withheld emotion.
You've let yourself become hardened to him.
You blame him for not doing enough of 'the work'.
You feel these things, but you don't quite know what to do with them.
Bringing your complaints to a therapist hasn't helped and trying to tell your partner what's wrong has left you you more confused and isolated than before.
OR
2. You're deeply craving a partner to do life with.
But not just any partner; You desire a conscious, masculine, integral man who's living his purpose.
The challenge?
You keep attracting little boys disguised as men who aren't ready or willing to meet you, open you, and take you where you want to go.
You've lost trust in men and find yourself turned off in your Eros in their presence.
Here's what we imagine:
When you come into right relationship with men, all of that changes.
After spending years guiding men and women through the intricate paths of love and relationships, we have come to understand both the beauty and challenges that shape our connections. Our own journey as partners has been one of profound growth, devotion, and vulnerability—a constant unfolding of love where we support each other in the delicate process of healing old wounds and nurturing new, empowering patterns. We created "Right Relationship with Men" to offer women a space where they, too, can rediscover this kind of profound connection with men, rooted in trust, respect, and mutual growth.
We're Allan McGrath + Ashae Sundara (soon to become Ashae McGrath!)
hiiii angel
This is your roadmap to feminine surrender in devotional love.
For almost a decade I've immersed myself in self-healing. I've found my purpose and built a successful career. It was everything to me for awhile. I was riding the highs of success. But an ache for exquisite love developed within me that no amount of financial win or goddess circle could fulfill.
So, I let my desire and my longing take me. However, when I really let myself feel that yearning, it took me into one of the most challenging and wound-bound relationships of my life. And then into a really hot one that ended in weeks.
At that point, I knew something had to change.
Even though I'd enjoyed sacred sexuality and polarity retreats and programs for years at that point, something wasn't working.
a note from ashae...
There are moments in my dating life (before Allan) I remember so vividly: the touch that felt sexy but still didn’t reach the depth I knew was possible; the conversations that had my mind swirling in fear and dissatisfaction instead of openness and lightness; the erotic nights that would end too quickly and with tears (and not in a good way); the time spent with my mentor at the time, asking... "Is this normal? What do I do?". I wanted so much more— I knew there was so much more— but it was so scary to trust. I even questioned if I was desiring too much, even though a deep part of me knew I could have it.
But then, I did something revolutionary. I told myself: "I'm going to be the love that I want to experience in my next relationship. No. Matter. What."
Shortly after, I met Allan and a radical journey of embodied loving began.
Our relationship is everything I'd wanted for all those years, but it didn't just land in my lap. It's a continuous day-to-day choice to be that love I knew I needed to be.
I knew I had to teach this program (and we needed to do it together) because of how we've taken our very hot and conscious relationship that we had from the start to a whole new level of creative loving, where every day is a whirlwind of possibility in depth, awakening, and liberation through this thing called love.
This program is our gift to you, born from our own journey and the profound realization that true intimacy begins with surrendering to the deepest desire in your heart for more- and then choosing to embody it.
RIGHT RELATIONSHIP WITH MEN
introducing...
- You ache to be met in love, sex, and relating in a way that satisfies the devotional wife and the sacred slut inside you
- You long to move throughout your day with the lusciousness of pleasure... where you honor your femininity and invite your current or future partner to join you.
- You desire two-feet-in devotional union... yet there's a part of you thats carrying more fear than you'd like to admit around full commitment. You wonder if you're making the right choice in partner.
- You've notice a judgment of men or your partner that feels hard to crack and you know you need to let it go or move on.
- Theres a place inside of your heart that's being spoken to on this page. There's a calling you cannot even explain, yet its always been there.
This is for you if:
forgive him
Your relationship with an intimate partner goes way beyond you and him. We’ll begin by examining and healing your foundational connections to men and the masculine.
THE MODULES INSIDE
RIGHT RELATIONSHIP WITH MEN
RESPECT him
Men’s hearts are hurting, more than you know. Touching the part of you that could love him more fully than he’s ever been loved will free both of you.
REVEAL TO him
His journey into King-hood is either supported or thwarted by your willingness to be both fiercely devoted and ruthlessly honest. Learning to appropriately embody your Queen is the best way for him to rise.
tRUST him
The man of your dreams is on the other side of relinquishing your control. Freeing your wild heart and his is the way you get there.
POLARIZE him
You might have concepts about “being in your feminine” but in this module, we’ll show you how to actually embody in the everyday and the intimate.
UNTAME him
It’s impossible for you to receive his power, provision, and protection when you’re subtly corroding his masculine essence.
CROWN +
uNCROWN him
This is the single most underrated skill that you have to learn in order to be impeccably met and fully felt.
There’s a part of you that trusts yourself more than you trust him. If you want the deepest possible devotion, that needs to change.
BLESS him
don't walk... run your way into this program if...
You yearn for more emotional, physical and emotional intimacy with your current or future partner
You feel a gap between the love you’ve experienced and the love you know is possible but don’t know how to bridge it
You know that what you’ve learned about how to relate to men and the masculine hasn’t worked and want to find away to love that more reflects your authentic heart.
You’ve struggled with how to relate to your present or past partner in a way that allowed you both to get what you want (you’re tired of feeling like there is a struggle between you getting what you want and your partner getting what they want)
1. You join.
2. You instantly get access to your bonus material, Fight to F*** + the calendar of calls.
3. We begin on December 2nd.
4. Each call will be 75 minutes in length and will include teaching, coaching, and facilitation, so you want to come live if possible.
How it works-
Bonus Included:
Instant Access to the private podcast feed, Fight to Fck!
This is an online training for singles and couples who want to learn how to alchemize the tension in conflict into turn on and tingles rather than trauma and tantrums!
Do I need to be in relationship to join?
No, definitely not. In fact, sometimes the best time to work on relationships is when we’re not in one. If you’re not in a relationship right now, this program will definitely help you prepare to make the next one the best one.
FAQ
Will the calls be recorded?
Yes the calls will all be recorded.
Is attendance of the calls live required?
While it isn’t required, we highly recommend doing what you can to attend the calls live. You will get much more from the program if you do.
Can my partner attend?
Sorry but no. This program will be for women only.
What if I'm in a same-sex relationship?
Usually there is one partner who is “more feminine” and one who is “more masculine” in every relationship. What we’ll be speaking to will sometimes apply to just men, but usually can be applied to people who are “more masculine”. If you want to learn how to love more masculine people, male or female, this program will definitely help you.
Are there refunds?
There are no refunds for a live program like this. If you want to talk to one of us to make sure investing in it is the right move for you, we are happy to talk! Just message on Instagram @ashaesundara or @allanmcgrath